An unflinching examination of the gap between humanity’s stated values and revealed preferences. The essay argues that humans are fundamentally driven by animal impulses (@nefs) that override our higher reasoning, and that every system we build eventually gets captured by these same impulses. The narrow path forward may lie not in changing human nature, but in building AI and decentralized systems that can encode our stated values more consistently than we ever could ourselves.

The human brain evolved to pursue, not to possess—happiness is neurologically designed to be temporary. The wellness industry profits from this by creating dissatisfaction and selling inadequate solutions, while the genuine correlates of wellbeing (relationships, contribution, autonomy) cannot be productized. The honest path is not finding happiness but accepting its impossibility and pursuing meaning instead.